Addressing Conflict
When you are faced with conflict, do you face it head-on or run away? The reality is that conflict is a normal part of life, even for a Christian! If we want to show God's love consistently, we must address conflict with love. Today on the Joie Miller Podcast, we're talking about Biblical keys to dealing with conflict and how you can experience and show the love of God, regardless of what you are facing.
Conflict is a normal part of life, but if we allow it to fester, it can create room for offense in our hearts and disunity in the body of Christ.
The heart of the Gospel is one of love and peace, especially regarding our relationships with fellow believers.
Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. - Ephesians 4:3
However, that doesn't excuse us from avoiding conflict in the name of peace! Instead, we're called to address conflict with love.
If you struggle to address conflict, whether it is with your children, spouse, in-laws, coworkers, or fellow Christians, try applying these tips!
Say what you need to say, but acknowledge their strengths, too.
Use a gentle tone, but be direct. Speak slowly.
See others through the eyes of Christ.
Be honest and show that you understand.
Verbalize their defense.
Don't raise your voice to match their tone.
Don't justify their projections.
Pray this: Father God, thank you for giving me the tools necessary to address conflict. Thank you for giving me your Holy Spirit to work through me and give me the right words to say. Help me always to see people through your eyes and quickly root out any offenses or conflicts from my heart. I want to serve you and be a part of your unified body. In Jesus' name, amen!