The Art of Communication
The Art of Communication
Communication is one of the most important keys to unlocking a successful and happy marriage. If you know how to communicate in a clear and loving way, when disagreements do occur, you will handle them with love and sincerity. You won’t walk away feeling anger or regret or shame because of what was said or done.
Remember, the goal is to listen and come to a resolve. The goal isn’t to find out who is right or wrong but to come to a place of understanding.
Perception is reality. You may not see things the same way, but it’s important to hear the other person out and seek to understand how they feel. Ask questions to gain understanding; show that you care about what they are thinking and feeling.
Listening communicates that you care about the other person and want to understand what they are feeling.
Give the person your full attention. Put your phone or other distractions away and look your spouse directly in the eyes.
2. Don’t use trigger words such as always or never.
3. Watch your body language. Body language speaks loudly! Posture yourself to listen; avoid crossing your arms, rolling your eyes, etc
Communication is an art that you can master! If you practice these simple tips, then your marriage will grow and flourish, and love and peace will become standard in your home.